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From Puppy Breath to Public Access |
It is not whether the law allows access,
but whether or not the team is ready for
it
After nearly a decade partnered with Chimette,
there's been a changing of the guard. A new Border Collie is on the scene.
Transitioning from the magical dance of a seasoned guide in harness, to
playing bumper cars with a tethered young, clueless trainee has been quite
an experience. A lot has changed since I was training Met, from my training
and handling abilities to the explosion in owner training itself. With
this explosion, many of us are now making the decisions that used to be
in the hands of programs. So how do we decide when to let them be
puppies enjoying their youth, and when to reach for the stars furthering
their training with public access? So what really is public access training
and at what point in the trainee's life does it begin and even advance
to more involved access? How does the trainer, especially a novice one
know when to move to the next step and when they are doing too much too
fast? There is not one right answer, but perhaps the experiences of mine
from the novice trainer to a decade of experience will enable you to form
some conclusions for you and your trainee.
When Thane came into my life, it had only
been two months since losing Met. Having him here even if it was only in
a comforting role was great healing to my heart. At the same time, it was
teaching me to appreciate his youth and playfulness, rather than focusing
on my expectations of the role he would one day perform. Imagine this ridiculous
image of my young adolescent, swallowed up by an enormous harness many
times larger than he ever would need. To expect the enormity of this harness
to fit my pup, would be no different than if I were to expect my pup to
be able to handle the rigors of even a mornings' role that his predecessor
performed for me. They are only young once and there is plenty of time
to fill the paws of the mature assistance dog down the road.
Training is exhilarating, perplexing,
exhausting, and at times quite frustrating, but the rewards for me always
far outweigh what I put into it. Reflecting on my training and early access
with Met as a novice trainer and first time handler, I knew this time would
be much different. My plan was in large to approach training for what it
truly was, a period of time where Thane would be learning the role rather
than baptized into it as Met had been. By taking all aspects of training
him slow and methodical, most specifically public access I was setting
us both up to succeed. I see this approach as a preventative of the
uncertainty, frustration, and stress that affects many young in-training
partnerships often due to ill preparation for various components of public
access. Over the years I have watched numerous dogs wash out. I knew my
heart would not be able to handle being the cause for such a great pup
washing out- solely because I got impatient and pushed rather than following
the motto *Slow is Fast*. It's so easy to think your trainee is ready for
the next phase, next step, or next encounter only for the experience to
wind up in failure because they just were not ready.
Despite how hard things were the first
couple of months following Thane's entrance, if I could not have my undivided
attention on Thane, he would not have freedom. Living alone in a sedentary
lifestyle, Thane was not wanting for time to stretch his legs or to run
and play like a growing pup needs to. In fact being a puppy with all its
snuggling benefits is just what was instore for him and me. This was our
time to get to know each other. A time of bonding and discovery as we each
headed down new paths together. At this time, I was still learning how
to live without Met's assistance and still in a bit of shock at all he
had been doing for me as my disabilities progressed over the years. I was
only then realizing the extent to which he accomodated my needs and what
I had lost in his passing. Thane had his own adapting to do as well. He
had come from the country and was encountering many sights and sounds for
the very first time. During this special time he was learning how to play
without hoarding- ahhh gotta love those Border Collie hoarders! He
was discovering that when he sat, laid down, came when called, targeted
my hand, or whatever else I might conjur up, that good things always followed-
mmm goodies! As with all young pups, our training included learning to
relieve on leash- now that one just about left me bald. Learning loose
leash walking with a trainer using a white cane was full of its own set
of challenges for a friendly Border Collie experiencing so many new sights
and sounds. All these things are such crucial prerequisites to public access.
Though some skilled trainers do public access for a short interval prior
to the beginning of fear periods to take advantage of this great socialization
time, this has not been a route I take due to the age of my trainee's and
my functional ability with an untrained pup.
From many people's perspectives, I was
actually rather slow in beginning public access with both Met and Thane,
but this is where the responsibility of the trainer comes in. As a novice
trainer, knowing no better, I often got into situations that were too much
for Met or myself individually and especially as a team. Rather than withdrawing
from the situation as I would now, I toughed it out because I placed greater
emphasis on the safety Met was providing for me to get from point A to
point B and back rather than on the success of our outings. This is a realization
that I see only now in hindsite. Like many novice trainers, the outings
I was taking were not training exercises, but part of my life that I tagged
him along with me like a parent and their toddler. From the first day we
began public access, I took him almost everywhere I needed or wanted
to go. Of course looking back on the whole experience, I shake my head
at my own nievete of the situation and especially at the fact that he succeeded
in such an awesome way given the circumstances he was trained in. Rather
than setting Met up to succeed at each interval, I was in fact, often setting
him up to fail. Met was, in reality, teaching me how not to train. The
best way to describe my approach to him with public access was, *ready
or not, here we come!* This is not something I am proud of, in fact
just the opposite. Hopefully my honesty will help other novice trainers
out there avoid some of the common mistakes of first time handler-trainers.
I have learned a lot over the decade between training my dogs. One of the
biggest concepts that is hard for many to get their heads around though
(including myself while I was training Met) is that its not whether the
law allows access, but whether or not the team is ready for it.
Even with Thane people questioned my delay
in access training. I had lived for a decade with an awesome combo trained
dog who adapted to my progressive disabilities over the years. After his
passing and Thane's entrace, it was all I could do to adapt to my disabilities
without Met. I can just picture it, a funniest home videos entry of me
navigating in my wheelchair with a white cane all the while my bouncy,
energetic pup zigzags and dashes to and fro across my wheelchair path in
a blur because mom, its a person! Hello, hello, hello! LOL You are probably
laughing right now right? Smile That is exactly what training Thane
for short walks involved. I would have loved to be accompanied by my trainee
if he had been ready. He was not and I was no where near ready as an individual,
so how could I ever expect us to be ready as a team to train or work together.
Taking this responsibility though hard as it was, truly set us up to have
amazing and productive public access training outings when it was our time.
My patience to hold back truly set us up to succeed. Inititially it was
about training exercises: guiding through just an aisle at the proper speed
and pull. It seems so long ago that we were doing that. The true key to
our success once more is assuring not just that Thane can handle the situation
at hand with ease, but that we have not pushed forward until we are both
rock solid as a team handling the little exercises. The larger ones awaited
us. They would be there when we were ready no matter how long it took to
get there. Knowing this in ones head though and being patient enough to
follow it are two totally opposite ends of the spectrum. It is so crucial
to treat our young trainees like trainees at the level they are at, rather
than as seasoned working dogs. For Thane and I, the concept of slow is
fast has rung out loud and clear- we are headed forward towards a long
and productive partnership.